Episode 6

Don't Treat your Kid Like an Idiot

Published on: 31st January, 2024

Our very first interview style podcast. I naturally interviewed my best friend Dana Follett to help shake the nerves and dive in.

In this episode of the Rise, Shine and Redefine podcast, Caryn Meininger and Dana Follett discuss the importance of not treating children like idiots and the negative effects of underestimating them. They explore the topic of honesty and open communication between parents and children, emphasizing the need for real relationships and understanding that not everyone is perfect. The hosts share a personal story about a friend who made up excuses instead of being honest about a strained relationship with her mother. They highlight the potential harm of lying and faking perfection, as it can lead to developmental traumas for children.

00:00:11 - Discussing Parenting Philosophy

00:01:37 - Honesty in Parent-Child Relationships

00:02:50 - The Impact of Dishonesty on Children

00:03:21 - Open Communication with Children

00:04:23 - Personal Experiences with Family Relationships

00:05:59 - Age-Appropriate Conversations with Kids

00:06:24 - Setting Boundaries and Being Role Models

00:07:06 - Breaking the Cycle of Imperfect Parenting

00:08:43 - Building Better Communication with Children

00:09:48 - Teaching Kids About Boundaries Through Personal Experiences

00:11:02 - Validating Children's Feelings

00:13:19 - Observing and Learning from Parents' Interactions

00:14:39 - The Importance of Setting Boundaries for Kids

00:16:09 - Balancing Discipline and Gentle Parenting

00:17:23 - Integrity and Authenticity in Parenting

00:18:17 - Teaching Kids About Giving and Growing

00:19:33 - Being Honest and Authentic with Kids

00:20:49 - Addressing Bullying and Judgment

00:21:24 - The Influence of Parents' Relationships on Children

00:22:37 - Life Lessons from Grocery Shopping

00:23:51 - The Effects of Parents' Behavior on Children

00:25:07 - Disciplining Children in Public

00:26:38 - Gentle Parenting and Setting Boundaries

00:28:44 - Repairing Trauma with the Time Machine Technique

00:30:30 - The Importance of Vulnerability and Relatability

00:31:49 - Leading by Example and Giving Kids Choices

00:33:36 - Repairing Memories and Building Connection

00:35:30 - The Role of Vulnerability in Parenting

00:36:57 - Final Thoughts and Takeaways

00:43:47 - Wrapping Up the Conversation

00:44:55 - One Actionable Step for Parents

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Rise, Shine, and Redefine
Welcome to the 'Rise, Shine, and Redefine,' podcast where we embark on a journey together towards self-discovery, growth, and transformation. I'm Caryn Meininger, your host and ally on this journey.
In our world, we'll delve into the heart of what it means to persevere personally, nurture relationships, uphold boundaries, and cultivate both mental and physical spaces that inspire. This is a place where your true beauty isn't just seen—it's celebrated.
Are you ready to be understood, to unveil the finest version of yourself, and to nurture thriving children? Then, you're in the right spot. Imagine, for a moment, if our childhoods were steeped in lessons of personal growth. Where might we be now? It's a thought that guides our conversations here.
As your BFF for Mindset Mastery, I'm here to bring a touch of magic and motivation to your everyday journey. We'll navigate the complexities of personal growth, family dynamics, and self-discovery together. Expect laughter, tears, and lots of 'aha' moments as we explore the power of mindset in transforming our lives and relationships..
This is more than a podcast. It's a community where you learn to love who you're becoming and cherish the journey – both yours and your children's. It's time to shed the weight of people-pleasing and step into your authentic power. To love yourself fiercely, to embrace your unique path, and to redefine what it means to live beautifully.
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Caryn Meininger

I left my family job to pursue my passion. Leaving behind the comfort of my conventional 9-5 job to embark on a journey fully aligned with my passions was a pivotal moment. The birth of personal growth wasn’t just about pursuing my dreams; it was a message to my son, Wesley, that he possesses the boundless potential to accomplish anything he sets his mind to. As I witnessed the profound transformation in Wesley’s life, along with the positive impact it had on our family, I knew I couldn’t keep it for myself. It became my mission to spread these empowering skills with all of you.